I am trying to be romantic with my fiance, need help please?
Billy T asked:
I am trying to be romantic with my fiance, need help please. I have tried a few things, bought her a few things learned a few tips and different things from yahoo, and romance101.com, but it seems like I am not hitting the right buttons. We at one point were engaged, then I messed up, we got back together after being a part for one month and now we have been doing fantastic, but I need some major romantic advise. If anyone could help it would be greatly appreciated.
I am trying to be romantic with my fiance, need help please. I have tried a few things, bought her a few things learned a few tips and different things from yahoo, and romance101.com, but it seems like I am not hitting the right buttons. We at one point were engaged, then I messed up, we got back together after being a part for one month and now we have been doing fantastic, but I need some major romantic advise. If anyone could help it would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks in advance.
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June 25th, 2009 in
Singles & Dating | tags: Different Things, Fiance, Romance101, Thanks In Advance, Yahoo







I think i’ve seen this somewhere before…but it’s not bad at all
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Give her a romantic surprise!!
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Try doing something nice for her like writing her a letter about how much you really love her! and then after that take her out to dinner….girls love being pampered!
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Be yourself. Show who you are.
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What does she want? there is no one way to be romantic. You must find out what emotional buttons to push if you want your fiancee to find a gesture romantic. Listen to what she is telling you. Women let us guys know in lots of ways but you must REALLY listen so she can tell you
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Be yourself, and be confident in what you. Take her on walk and express to her through your deeds that she means the world to you. do little things like, get her blanket if she seems cold, water when shes thirsty. Hold her hand in public and whisper in her ear that you love her. Treat her like is the most frafile, most precious thing in the universe and shes yours. Thats all women want, is to know they’re wanted.
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Pull away for a while. get life outside. make her miss you and show her that you’ve got other stuffs to do. Do not pressure her or work too hard. She will come aroung begging …..
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First of all, let me start by saying this: don’t try too hard. If you try too hard to impress her, your efforts will seem forced.
I would suggest doing something simple like picking her up (if you don’t live together) and taking her out to see a movie. Buy some flowers. If you do happen to live together, bring her home some flowers and rent some movies to watch at home. Cook her dinner, run her bath water, in the morning, make her breakfast in bed, give her a massage. Little things like this could really help.
Think about her hobbies. If she likes reading, suggest that you two read a book together. Does she like writing? Write her a long, sweet note.
Here’s something my boyfriend did that really surprised me and I found it really romantic. He wrote notes all over the house, sort of like a scavenger hunt. He sent me a text message to tell me where the first one was and from there, I had to find the rest. For example, he put a note on my dresser. He texted me and told me to go read it. I did. It told me to look in the dresser drawer. The one in the drawer told me to look under my bed, etc, etc, and finally it led me to a big piece of paper that said, “I LOVE YOU.” You could turn it up a notch and write a long note, or even leave something like a rose at every note, making it twelve roses.
Simple things. Don’t be too extravagant.
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Every woman is different in the things she likes. Some like attention, some like gifts, some like a balance in between. It’s up to you to determine what your fiancee’s likes and dislikes are. Maybe plan a night when you have a candlelit dinner at home together that you’ve cooked for her, then spend the evening watching her favorite DVD’s while you give her a massage or comb her hair out for her? Or you could plan a weekend afternoon out where you go for a long walk and take a picnic lunch. Or surprise her with dinner at her favorite restaurant out of the blue one evening (it doesn’t have to be a weekend, just pick an evening when you can spend time together). Leave her love notes around where she’ll find them (taped to her bathroom mirror, on her steering wheel in her car, in her purse or coat pocket, etc). Buy her something you know she wants then make an evening of a ‘treasure hunt’ where she has to follow clues to find it.
The key thing is to make the evening focused on her. Don’t do things you like and just think she’ll like too. Don’t pick someplace to go that you think is great and she just thinks is okay. You want to let her know that she’s the center of your world for that evening, and you’re showing her how much her likes and preferences mean to you.
Good luck.
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What’s your fiance enjoy? What type of personality does she have.
Romance doesn’t = flowers, candles, chocolate, and jewelery just because that’s what has been flashed around so much.
The perfect romantic evening is having a man show how much he cares, AND how much he pays attention.
What’s her favorite food? Italian, viatnamese, mexican?
Is she athletic? If she really likes to rollerblade, (as an example) and she doesn’t get to do it often, then taking her out to a place to do that would be very thoughtful. Especially if your bad at it.
Tailor an evening to her. If your going to buy her a gift, it has to be something that shows you know her. I had a boyfriend who bought me lots of jewery - and I’m alergic to metal, so reguardless of how good his intentions were, or how much he spent, they were terrible gifts.
You know your lady better then any of us could. I’m sure you could come up with something Unique to her, that she would love. Most of the time the effort put in is worth more then the date itself.
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I like the little things that my husband does for me….like when he makes breakfast on sunday mornings, or when he goes for a walk w/me. Most women like the small things the most.
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1. Write her a REAL love letter…not an email
2. Send her roses to her work “on accident”
3. Call her up and leave a **** voicemail
4. Pick her up from work and take her out to a romantic picnic somewhere
5. Have a nice romantic picnic on the beach….a blanket…some desserts….some cool water….some hot tanning oil….you do the math!!!
6. Take her shopping at Fredricks of Hollywood and
buy her some lingerie
7. Buy her a cute, little stuffed animal
8. Buy her a day at the Day Spa…a massage….pampering…manicure…pedicure…
9. Go for along drive to the mountains and bring some strawberries, chocolate syrup and whipped cream
10. Take her to the County Fair or a Swap Meet
11. Make out at a Drive-in of you there’s around where you
live.
12. Write her a very romantic & **** love poem
13. Wear some silk boxers for her to discover “on accident”
14. Give her a nice, sensual back massage
15. Find all her erogenous zones on her body and kiss and tickle them. Every woman is different so you can have to play “Indiana Jones” on this one and discover them for yourself.
16. Watch a really hot **** movie like ” 9 1/2 weeks” or “Wild Orchid”
17. Play “Naked Twister” with her
18. Play Strip Poker with her
19. Good luck
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Often times the most romantic thing you can do for a woman, particularly if you live with her, is do things for her so she can not have to work so hard. If she made dinner, you do the dishes. Turn off the tv on occasion and just sit on the couch, hold her hands and talk with her about anything. When she talks, really listen and be responsive. Give her a massage and playful light foreplay and then just cuddle instead of having ***. Do anything around the house - vacuum, sweep, water the plants. When she goes grocery shopping go with her - you can also ensure you’ll get some snacks or things you want to eat for the week that way too, and nothing is hotter than a man carrying the grocery bags from the car to the house so she can start putting things away. It’s nice to get flowers on occasion, but really romance shouldn’t have to cost a dime. I guess one philosophy to live by is treat her as you would wish to be treated. Would you like to have breakfast in bed? She just might as well. Now don’t extend this to well, i’d like to have a ********* so i can’t understand why she wouldn’t - it’s more of a guideline philosophy than an actual rule. Hope this helps. Good luck
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you want my advise? cook dinner for her one night, the whole dinner by dinner by candle light thing-that one’s always gotten somewhere…or find out her favourtie author and buy her one of their books
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This is an article whit good info. Good look!!!
Ways to be Romantic
Rarely does Valentine’s Day pass by without your notice. Even if you are single and think the day has no significance, the day will arrive and you will want a relationship more than usual. If you are in a relationship and Valentine’s Day does not get celebrated, it will leave hurt and resentment in its wake.
I invite you to think of Valentine’s Day as “Focus on Love Day,” as opposed to “Hurt About Lack of Love Day” or “Ignore Being Single Day.”
Below you will find ways to make your “Focus on Love Day” extraordinarily romantic, whether you are in a long-term relationship, dating, or are single.
A note for people who are in a new relationships, or who are dating someone but are not in a committed relationship. At the beginning of a relationship, it is best not to have too any expectations about how Valentine’s Day will be celebrated. It is also best not to get disappointed if it is not celebrated in just the way you would want. In time, as you and your partner get closer, both of you will be able to celebrate Valentine’s Day and other holidays in more meaningful ways.
This Valentine’s Day, create a perfect “Focus on Love Day” for yourself, regardless of what your dating partner may or may not have planned for you. Look at the suggestions for singles below.
Then, do something small, but meaningful for your dating partner. Look for suggestions for couples below, but tone the activity down a bit.
And now, 10 ways to make your “Focus on Love Day” extraordinarily romantic:
1. The Perfect Day
Couples:
See if you can start to notice what your lover dreams about, wishes for. Listen for small, attainable things that can make a big difference. Alternatively, subtly question your lover about what he/she pictures as the perfect Valentine’s Day. Now take the information you have gathered and make it into a perfect day for him or her.
Singles:
If you had a partner, what would you have him or her do to create your perfect Valentine’s Day? Create it for yourself - love yourself that much.
2. The Perfect Card + One Perfect Rose
Couples:
Buy or make a lovely card and then fill it to the brim with words of love, admiration and appreciation. By “fill it to the brim,” I mean leave no white space untouched. Present it with one perfect rose.
Singles:
Buy or make a lovely card for yourself, and just as above, fill it to the brim with words you want to hear from your future lover. Seal the envelope and open it on Valentine’s Day. Present it to yourself with one perfect rose.
3. Valentine’s Day is Not Just for Women
Couples:
Ladies, I have it on good authority that guys want to be celebrated too. So get him flowers and candy and a card, too.
Singles:
Guys, give yourself that same wonderful Valentine’s Day as a relationship partner would give you. You may feel silly, but you will also feel good.
4. Say Goodbye to Obligation, Say Hello to Open Heart
Couples:
Don’t give or do anything out of obligation this Valentine’s Day. Give only from your heart, from love and treasuring your partner. No matter how good or bad your relationship is going, get in touch with how much you truly love and appreciate your partner. Give from that space.
Singles:
Don’t beat yourself up for not having a partner. You have not failed. You are not bad. Valentine’s Day can be “Focus on Love for Yourself Day” as easily as “Focus on Love for Another Day.”
5. The Gift of Undivided Attention
Couples:
Give your partner the gift of undivided attention and see if she or he doesn’t find that the most romantic thing going.
Singles:
Give yourself the gift of your own undivided attention. Take away all of the distractions and be with yourself the way you would want your partner to be with you.
6. Gift of Communication, I
Couples: Men, allow your woman to talk about whatever her heart desires, and listen. Ladies, let your man talk or answer your question without finishing his sentences for him, interrupting him, or moving on to the next topic. See if this doesn’t make sparks fly.
Singles:
Either find a person who will listen to you the way you need to be heard, or give yourself space and time to listen to your own thoughts and feelings or to journal.
7. Gift of Communication, II
Couples:
Ladies, give your man the gift of sitting down next to him in silence. No talking allowed. Men, give your lady the gift of talking and sharing from your heart. No closing down, walling up or running away allowed.
Singles:
Either silence or open heart, give yourself whichever one you need.
8. A Gift with Interest
Couples:
Is your partner into computers, and you don’t know a mouse from a monitor? Or is she into gardening, but to you a rose is just a rose? Give your partner the gift of your interest in something that is important to him or her. Go ahead, ask your partner a question about it and see the smile light up his or her face.
Singles:
Give yourself the gift of time to pursue your important interests. Take the time to do something that nourishes you and makes you happy.
9. The Trust
Couples:
Ladies, give the man in your life the gift of trusting him to know how and when to take care of himself and you. Trust that he will do the best he can for Valentine’s Day. Gentlemen, hold her trust sacred, and learn to listen for subtle requests. Then honor them. The celebration of love will feel good to both of you.
Singles:
Today, trust your process and your fate. Today, trust that you too will be loved and cherished by a partner. Today, remember all the people who already love and cherish you.
10. A Shower of Words
Couples:
Write your loved one a love letter or poem and read it to them on Valentine’s Day. Here come the tears.
Singles:
Write yourself a love letter or poem, exactly the way you would want it written by a lover. Read it to yourself out loud and have Kleenex ready.
Plan to have a happy Valentine’s Day!
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